Monday, January 12, 2009

Sassasaurus

Morning duckies! I know all is well because that's how life should be. I'm really enjoying the single life, more so than I've ever have. One of Beyonce's songs, on her newest album "I Am...Sasha Fierce," used to epitomize my feelings about being single. It's called "Scared of Lonely."


(If you wanna hear it, here's the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6VRfTY1rZI.)

At this point in my life being in a relationship is something else I don't need on my plate. Nowadays, my plate is full and I find myself binge-eating more than usual. I need some time for me. I haven't had much time to work on the relationship with me...not even as a child. From 5th to 12th grade I went to Choir Academy of Harlem (home to the Boys Choir of Harlem) and I hardly had a minute to myself.



I would always be somewhere around the world: all over the United States, Puerto Rico, Canada, Japan, Lincoln Center, Madison Square Garden, Carnegie Hall, the Met, the White House, etc. I was basically a productive/talented child slave. However, I don't regret a second of it. I would not be the beautiful person I am today without the phenomenal molding of Boys Choir...and our late founder, Dr. Walter J. Turnbull.



He passed away March 23, 2007 and it was the saddest day of my life. I never lost anyone really close to me and when he left for Heaven I fell apart. The really sad thing is he passed away while I was on my way home, to see him. Dr. Turbull taught me so many wonderful things. One of them being 'never be anything you're not.' I love and miss you so much Dr. Turnbull. (I'm getting chocked up...next subject.)

In regards to the topic of family, I had to catch a ride to Saturday's baby shower with my grandparents and I loved it. I forgot how funny they are. Before we left they were telling me how proud they are of me, in between their little "married-couple" fights. It was precious. Plus, my grandfather is hilarious. He's an English major alum from Virginia Union University and I love exchanging witty banter with him.



You know what else I love? I love the movie "Jurassic Park." I just love dinosaurs. But when I first saw the movie I was scared $hitless.



When I was younger (I can't recall the exact age) my grandmother took me to the "Jurassic Park" exhibit at the Museum of Natural History. I was so excited! When we got there I was bouncing off the walls. (This part I must have blocked-out because my grandmother remembers it vividly and I don't.) Supposedly when I saw the "Jurassic Park" exhibit's sign I ran in front of my grandmother, far into the exhibit. Grandma said that I ran into their "actual-size" T-Rex and I took one glance up at it....and bolted out of the exhibit. Grandma said I just took off and she caught me right before I could reach the museum's main entrance/exit.



I totally believe her too because dinosaurs amaze me but if I ever ran into one, I'd run until my legs fell off...or until they ate them lol. But I have to say my favorite part of the film is toward the end, when T-Rex kills the velociraptors in the visitor's center lobby. When he lets out a deafening roar a banner (that reads "When dinosaurs roam the Earth") descends in front of him. T-Rex looks like such a diva. Check out this video to see the actual scene and my re-enactment. (You're gonna hear Gabriella laughing in the background.)



Loves it. Anywho, let's get to the quote of the day for Jan 12th:

"You can't help who you are and when you try to suppress your very nature, you lose a vital part of your being. Be yourself and care not what others think. Life is beautiful and you've got nothing to be ashamed of."

With that being said don't tie yourself in knots trying to hold back what you really want out of life.



I love you. I wish you the best of happiness. Stay true duckies.

Peace, love & Obama,
Gabriel Anderson

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Congratulations, It's A (Couture) Girl

Hey duckies. I've come to realize a lot over the past couple days. I've discovered that my life is so eventful (even without me trying to liven it up). In addition to my life always being festive, I've come to the conclusion that my life is truly mine. I am going to live my life exactly the way I want. Others are in your life for a reason. Conversely, your life is yours to govern. Of course there's like the law to abide by (no offense criminals) but life is meant to be taken advantage of. With that being said I need to concentrate on the relationship with myself.



I, like Samantha Jones (from "Sex and the City"), like testing my options and being single is going to be my way of doing so. Devin and I have decided that we need to be best friends right now because I'm too busy for a relationship. When my life goals are fully developed...I'll find a cure for my SamanthaJonesitis lol. Oh! I have a new word of the week (well phrase to be exact.) The new "Word/Phrase of the Week" is:

Caffed Up: (meaning) heavily dependent and effected by significant amounts of alertness medication or "caffeinated" elements; totally obliterated.
Ex: "My day goes by so fast when I'm 'caffed up.'"



Speaking of caffed up I was so caffed up at my mom's best friend's baby shower today.


(This is not a picture of the actual baby shower. I just thought this picture was so cheesy and tacky lol.)

I took a 5-hour energy and a Red Bull...at the same time. I have no idea how I'm alive right now lol. Anyway the baby shower was so glamorous. My mother designed the whole thing with her "vision." She put up white and pink fabric with coordinated streamers, African-Wildfire Orchids (well that's how they looked), pearl tablecloths and everything else A-list. However, everything didn't go smooth while planning. Here's a video to show you the sass everyone had to deal with because Mommy had a "vision."



Yeah...talk about sass. But sass aside my Mom is a gem. The baby shower was a total hit and the sass was well-deserved lol. Joy (my mom's best friend and baby shower "it" girl) got soooooo much stuff. She got over $1,000 in cash, gift cards and tons of gifts. (When we brought all the stuff into her apartment's family room, we could barely walk without stepping over anything.) One of the gifts (courtesy of Gabriella) was a pair of pink baby Uggs. They were soooooo cute. Anywho, I was the baby shower's bartender so you know everyone was having a good time lol. After the shower, we started cleaning up and Gabriella & I came across some unattended balloons. (If you guys didn't know I used to be a helium junkie lol.) I recently taught Gabriella how to successfully obtain helium out of a balloon without popping it; watch the skills in this video!



...she's so precious.
Now watch what happens when an addict is given his drug of choice. Viewer beware lol.



I've made peace with the fact that I'm crazy and I wouldn't have it any other way. But enough about me, let's get to the quote of the day for January 11th:

"Friends are living, breathing extensions of your personality. Like your personality, friends are there 24/7. If you're friends only 'clock-in' (only) when its convenient to them, move on with your life; your personality will adjust."

I'd like to give a shout-out to a new blogger, a good friend of mine, Elle Fox. Her link is http://underratedchic.blogspot.com/. She's an A-list city girl with a life as entertaining as mine. Show her some love guys. With that being said, my energy supplements are wearing off so I'm going to hit the bed..literally lol. I wish you the best of happiness. Stay true duckies.

Peace, love & Obama,
Gabriel Anderson